If you love someone for who they are, not what they do or don’t do, why do their actions matter? When you love someone for who they are, actions don’t matter. Actions only make it conditional, that you would love them only when this, this and this happens, otherwise you are angry, hurt. If you love, just love.
I only ever learnt conditional love from parents. I don’t blame them because they didn’t know. Most of the time it made me wonder if i really know what love is. Loving someone or yourself unconditionally, is an everyday choice. No matter what you do, or no matter what they do, choose love, choose kindness, choose to not hate yourself.
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